Healthy Love
I got a reflection at first light, why is love so hard and bitter? The fact is that love is not awkward love is easy, humans are dangerous and end up giving sorrow because they are trapped in chaos and restlessness.
Right love enters easy and it’s all about finding/ meeting the right love, not true love. Right love will never get exhausted of you no matter how far away you are looking because of it’s established on honesty/respect & partnership, all we need is a companion for the life an individual who can embrace our flaws as beauty but do that first we need to love ourselves besides that anything or more anyone in the cosmos. Righteous love is always happy to have you because that devotion is religious and spiritual. There is a lot of empathy and acceptance and harmony. This is a decision between both lives equally ripe with the clarity of fortune.
The time when we accept ourselves completely with all our faults embrace our weakness as unique as everyone around us treats us. People treat you like you permit them. Never allow anyone to take you for granted or enjoy your kindness, there is a very fine line between loving and being blind in love. He will never forsake you. It will give you safety and you will feel safe in this relationship, it will give you commitment even before you ask. He dares to stand by your side/ to you. There will always be time for you when necessary and give space when necessary.
One aspect of the present that I realized and understood today after falling flat is that the right person/connection is never bogged down. It will never put you in self-doubt of not being good enough because of the weight you have put on or not being able to do anything right, it will come easy and will blossom with each day. There will be encouragement, laughter and most importantly it will be amicable it will withstand for you. It will never put you in some sort of dilemma/doubt/fear of leaving someday. It will be the kind which is eternal & persistent because it’s not a selfish love it’s a selfless love which leads you to growth and believes in equal give-take and not sucking all your energy for their welfare. The good one will only create an incredible team. If it does not give you stability and leaves you in self-doubt or scruples to have an opportunity together or not means its not the right type.
Lasting things simply come into life, you don’t have to push or fight for it. As it is intended to be for you alone, just be patient and relaxed. It is unique for finding it, but the authentic and timeless aspects are extraordinary. As if it were worthwhile. Trust me, if you’re in a relationship or with someone who makes you doubt yourself or the bond is not your eternity.
Therefore, have hope and never abandon love, because of a few cowards you have met on your way to the meeting the right one. You have met them only to know the difference and have self-realisation of what you do not want in your life surely!
